So maybe you’ve just started thinking about it. 🤔
You’re in a relationship. The sex is great. You feel connected. But a little voice in your head whispers, “Could toys make it even better?”
And immediately, another voice goes:
“Wait—wouldn’t that be… weird? What if my partner takes it the wrong way? What if it ruins the vibe? What if it’s too much?”
First of all: you’re not alone. So many of us have those same thoughts when we first get curious about adding toys to our sex life. Especially if you’ve never used a sex toy before—not solo, not with a partner.
There’s this fear that bringing a vibrator into bed is somehow saying “something’s wrong” or that it’ll feel awkward, or like a third wheel 🥴. But here’s the truth: sex toys aren’t a replacement—they’re an invitation. An invitation to explore new sensations, deepen connection, and discover things neither of you knew you might love.
If you’re wondering if there’s any point in trying something new when things are already working… there’s your answer right there: curiosity is reason enough.
Let’s break it all down, bust the weirdness, and talk about how couple’s toys can make your connection even more playful, exciting, and intimate. 💫
Why Even Use Toys in a Relationship? Aren’t We Enough for Each Other? 😅
First of all—yes. You are enough.
Toys aren’t a replacement for your partner, and using them doesn’t mean your sex life is broken or boring or “missing something.”
It just means you’re curious. You want to explore more. You’re open to new sensations, more connection, more pleasure... and that’s kind of beautiful. ✨
Couple’s toys aren’t about “fixing” anything—they’re about enhancing what’s already good and discovering even more ways to feel amazing together.
What Are Couple’s Toys, Anyway? 🤔
Couple’s toys are pleasure products designed to be used together—during foreplay, penetrative sex, long-distance play, or honestly... any time you want to turn up the heat. 🔥
They’re not gender-specific. They’re not just for “adventurous” couples.
They’re for anyone who wants to have more fun, feel more connected, and add a little spice (or a lot, no judgment 🌶️).
Our Favorite Couple’s Toys to Try Together 😍
Let’s get into the fun part: the toys. Here are a few beginner-friendly faves from Fearless Play that are guaranteed to turn up the chemistry:
🎮 Remote-Control Vibrators
These are perfect for giving up control (or taking it 😉). One partner wears the toy, the other holds the remote. Use it during a dinner date, a walk, or while cuddling on the couch. Tease, surprise, and build anticipation. 👀
👉 Try the Lovense Flexer – wearable, lightweight and quiet App-controlled dual panty vibrator, perfect for public (or private) play.
👉 Or the Rora 2 – A discreet pressure sensing app-controlled rotating G-spot and clitoral vibrator with 9 modes of vibration and rotation patterns to explore together.
👫 Partner Vibrators (Yes, You Can Use Them During Sex!)
Some toys are designed to be worn during penetrative sex, adding stimulation for both of you. These vibes usually rest against the clitoris and vibrate internally too. The result? You both feel it. And it’s really good.
👉 Try the We Vibe Sync O – Worn during sex and stimulates you both.
👉 Or the Dame Eva – a hands-free wearable clitoral vibrator for pleasure that stays in place during sex.
🌍 Long-Distance Toys (For Lovers Far Apart)
Whether you’re in a long-distance relationship or just want to spice up a weekend apart, app-controlled toys let you control your partner’s pleasure from anywhere in the world. ✈️📱
👉 Try the Lovense Toys – Control any toys from this brand from any distance, anywhere, anytime.
👉 Or gift your partner the Kiiroo Onyx+ and Pearl2+ Couples Set– you can get all the feels from anywhere in the world with this male masturabtor and womens g-spot touch sensitive vibrator.
💍 Cock Rings (Yes, They're for Pleasure Too!)
Cock rings help maintain erections and enhance sensation for both partners. Some vibrate. Some add pressure. All of them say, “let’s make this feel even better.”
👉 Try the Je Joue Mio – A super smooth and soft cock ring, will keep him harder for longer, and give her intense external vibration.
👉 Or the Playboy Pleasure Bunny Buzzer – Stretchy, velvet-smooth cock ring with a vibrating bunny for shared stimulation and stronger, longer-lasting erections.
🍑 Butt Plugs for Couples
Butt play isn’t just a “wild” thing to try—it can be a deeply pleasurable and surprisingly intimate experience. A beginner-friendly butt plug during foreplay or penetration can add fullness, pressure, and stimulation that many people love.
Start small. Use lube. Go slow. Talk lots. (And don’t forget, never use anything back there without a flared base!)
👉 Try the Booty Sparks Rainbow Prism Heart Anal Plug – A cute, small plug with a sparkling twist ✨
👉 Or the Colors Pleasures Mini Plug – A smooth silicone plug perfect for beginners.
👐 Multiuse Toys = Endless Possibilities
These are your foreplay-to-orgasm MVPs. Soft, flexible vibes that can be used anywhere on the body—nipples, inner thighs, neck, clit, penis, butt, and even internally. Perfect for sensual massages and spicy moments.
Whether you’re playing with each other or just guiding one another’s pleasure, these toys are all about flow, touch, and creative exploration.
👉 Try the Tryst – designed with both men and women in mind, it is as versatile as your desire, with 7 vibration modes.
👉 Or the Satisfyer Endless Fun Multi Vibrator – the creators of the toy have imagined 32 pleasure possibilities with it (they're illustrated on the back of the packaging) for endless exploration.
Okay But... Is It Awkward to Bring Up Toys With My Partner? 😬
It doesn’t have to be! Here’s how to make it casual and fun (not cringe or confrontational):
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Try this: “Hey, I saw this couple’s toy online and thought it could be fun to try together.”
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Or: “Would you ever want to experiment with toys together? No pressure—I’m just curious.”
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Or just send them a link with 👀 and a “What do you think?”
Keep it playful. Keep it low-pressure. Let it be an invitation, not a demand. You might be surprised how into it they are 😉
Final Thoughts: Sharing Pleasure = Deeper Connection 💖
Couple’s toys aren’t just about more orgasms (although... let’s be real, they help). They’re about being vulnerable. Trusting each other. Exploring something new together. Laughing, learning, and loving your way into deeper intimacy.
You don’t need toys to have a good sex life—but if you’re curious, they might just help you unlock something amazing.
Wanna browse together? Check out the full collection of Couple’s Toys on Fearless Play and start your next adventure... together 💫